it saved my marriage. I seemed ready to leave Sean, but something kept me from doing that. and my patience, my higher power, my forbearance allowed me to wait and begin my own recovery. then, while I started minding my own business, things got better–my marriage got better, and I got better. now, I’m still with Sean, and I’m happy. now, I’m so grateful I’m with Sean, that I didn’t leave him back then.